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as some context

i (20f) have been with my boyfriend (25m) for 2 years now. our relationship has been phenomenal for a long time

and he is a good man. there is only one thing that weirds me out a bit. he claims that he listens to music to put on a better performance

which i appreciate in some aspects. the only thing i can complain about is his song choices. there is one song in particular that just kills the mood for me. the song is “cbat” by hudson mohawke. my boyfriend seems to love this song a lot

because whenever we are having sex

this seems to be his go to song to have an erection to. i personally do not get it. i hate the way it feels for me

and the way the song sounds makes it feel like i’m fucking a clown. i do not like it. one day

i gently told him how i felt about the songs he made love to me with. we talked it over and he seemed pretty receptive. we decided to try not using music that night

so i wouldn’t have to worry about the song choice. we began having sex

and it started off great. this was the best i’ve experienced from him in a long time. however

after a minute or so i noticed something. he was still thrusting to the rhythm of that damn song. at that point

i knew all of the song

and by him doing that i heard the music in my head. i was tired at that point

so i just kindly asked him to stop

and he did. i feel a bit bad about the situation

but i have put up with this for so long. i don’t know how much longer i can keep this up. this is not the only song i feel uncomfortable with. it’s just the worst one. some other songs on his list are the rick and morty theme

gangham style

fireflies

and radioactive. i hope he realizes that these songs aren’t the best choices. i would gladly help him choose some different ones if he asked me to. tl;dr: would i be ta for breaking up with my boyfriend because of the music he plays during sex?